Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Tantric Lovemaking, The Orgasmic Experience

Most women have had an orgasm at some point in their lives. Many have one or more orgasms every time they make love. Still others have absolutely no idea what an orgasm feels like. But how many women, particularly those who do not participate in Tantric sex, have experienced the ultimate orgasm?

The ultimate orgasm can be described as a whole-body experience, rather than a strictly genital one. It is part of the art of Tantric lovemaking also referred to as the energy orgasm. It encompasses the very philosophy of Tantra in that it involves a release of the mind and body in order to achieve ultimate pleasure.

All orgasms, including genital, are essentially mind over matter. According to Pala Copeland, author of Freeing the Female Orgasm, a woman, and not her partner, decides when and if she will have an orgasm.

"The first step on the path to freeing a woman's orgasm," she says, "is for both men and women to understand that men do not give women orgasms. Women allow themselves to have orgasms. Despite popular belief, no matter how good a lover you may be, unless your partner can give herself up to the pleasures of her body, she won't have orgasms."

The Tantric orgasm takes this idea one step further. Although the genital orgasm requires a woman to free her mind and body, the pleasure derived from it is most often purely physical and only in the genital area, specifically the clitoris. An energy orgasm, on the other hand, is quite different from the genital orgasm, although they can occur simultaneously. In fact, the energy orgasm does not even involve prolonged genital stimulation nor sexual intercourse.

Like everything else in Tantra, the energy orgasm is a spiritual experience above all else. It involves a letting go of the mind and total focus on the soul. This happens when you take your mind off your genitals and concentrate on your soul, your universe and the energy within you.

So what does the ultimate energy orgasm feel like? Unlike the tense buildup associated with genital orgasms, an energy orgasm can be intense or subtle, but it is always extremely pleasurable. It is considered the ultimate orgasm because you feel it throughout your entire body. It has been described as a euphoric feeling of being high achieved not through the use of drugs, but the use of your own inner energy. And unlike the pleasure of a genital orgasm, an energy orgasm can be felt for a long period of time, instead of just a 10-second climax during sexual intercourse.

The following is an overview of how to experience an energy orgasm. Before you attempt this, though, you must be familiar with Tantra and with the many chakras associated with it, which requires research, study and practice.

HOW TO HAVE AN ENERGY ORGASM:

1) Lie down on a firm surface with your knees bent.

2) Breath a few times, emptying your mind and letting go of tension.

3) When you feel yourself relaxing, take deeper breaths, in through your nose and out through your mouth. It is important that you make the breathing circular, with no pauses.

4) As you breath, arch your back as you inhale and lower your back and squeeze your PC muscles as you exhale (the ones that stop urination) as you exhale. Repeat continuously.

5) Now it's time to use your mind and soul to stimulate energy. Imagine pulling the entire universe into the space between your anus and vagina and circulating it there. This will build fire in your sex center, or the first and second chakras. Next, move the energy to your abdominal area, circulating the fire from the belly to the genitals, the second and third chakras.

6) Now circulate the energy from the belly to the heart, the third and fourth chakras.

7) Next concentrate on the throat. Circulate the energy from heart to throat, the fourth and fifth chakras. You should feel the energy in your throat, which may cause you to emit sounds. If you do not automatically make sounds, purposely do so to further open up the throat and give more space for the energy. Circulate in this area until you feel the energy in the Third Eye.

8) Now circulate the energy from the throat to the Third Eye, the fifth and sixth chakras.

9) Finally, circulate the energy from the Third Eye to the top of your head, the seventh chakra. You will feel as though the energy is going to explode through the top of your head.

The whole-body, ultimate orgasm will follow. You will feel something that cannot be described, but only experienced. Remember, to achieve an energy orgasm you absolutely must be familiar with Tantric principles and philosophy. Tantra is not something that can be rushed into. It is a lifestyle and belief system that must be carefully studied and practiced. But, once you have devoted yourself to the art of Tantra, having an ultimate orgasm is just one of the intense pleasures you can experience.

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